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early autumn '25 status: my bonfire heart is nonsensically warm
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* Mon, Oct 27 '25 ~ 00:15 lfm

its been a year since the shysoft dream. just observing this fact

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:29 lfm

rustling in the wind

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:15 lfm

tiny puddle on a trash can rippling in the wind

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:14 lfm

sat on a wet bench to listen to the starlings in the reeds

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:11 lfm

leaves stuck all over a wet car like confetti

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 16:53 lfm

saying stupid shit online 4ever

* Sat, Oct 25 '25 ~ 23:19 lfm

anywayyyyy workbreak timeeeee

* Sat, Oct 25 '25 ~ 23:18 lfm

but for sure no longer spinspiralling inside my own head about this - even while still admitting to myself and to whoever cares enough to look at my thoughts page that the friend is cool and cute

* Thu, Oct 23 '25 ~ 22:13 lfm

belated bittersweetness - but thats alright too in the process

* Thu, Oct 23 '25 ~ 11:13 lfm

oh shit new meredith monk album? sometimes nice to be tapped in on classical-primary radio at work. theyre gonna play (bits of) the album on this show

long as this doesnt scare the customers off too much HAHA

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 23:35 lfm

love as unstoppable force, respect as immovable object - least thats the way things feel within me maybe even at large

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 23:34 lfm

thinking about how i read some stuff from loveless aro ppl somw time back, and rlly seeing what theyre putting down in the text, even while not loveless or even aro myself, just someone with a bit of a fraught relation with the concept and how its defined in this stupid orientation-rigid chunk-of-world n that

'love' this 'love' that, what about respect and so on fr

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 22:56 lfm

You've got some good energy tho
Keep it safe
And it will serve ye well

-a friend :,]

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 16:37 lfm

two wolves living within me - theyre named Unstoppable Force and Immovable Object

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 15:15 lfm

let the adjacent net move slow

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 11:48 lfm

so i guess this is Unsuppressable Dumbassery ahah

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 09:03 lfm

much nowhere else to go aside from my own head!!!!

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 09:02 lfm

nonsennnnsssssse

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 22:39 lfm

-- still really enamored with you, so don't mind me too much if i say more of silly shit to you --

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 19:00 lfm

wait fuck this means im officially turning 29 next week too HAHA

it's cool, just a bit unexpected. i guess i had one big wish for the being-28, which was Moving Out, and move out i did - so i'm happy.

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:58 lfm

who will clock whom first is gonna be the most fun question (i will probably clock him first, but who knows. there's a rough trade right next to the venue, i might go and look at stuff in there. i hope they got james k friend cd but its ok if nottt cos maybe there will be cds at the james k show tooooo)

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:55 lfm

im officially catching moa pillar again Next Week, over nearly 6 years. not clear if itll be live or dj (in his ig post shouting out some upcoming things, he only said he will be playing "me music" at the bristol thing hahah), but either way will be crazy cool and/or cute to sort of reunite after all this time

catching lorenzo senni live gonna be cool too, and at least one friend of mine whos going to that tooo

manifesting that shysoft-dream friend's able to come - but it's okay if not :p

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:52 lfm

a longer-time tumblr mutual going like "ty booboo" at me. +5 hp

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 03:12 lfm

im really going round and round about this sort of haha

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 03:11 lfm

seeing you in soft golden hour light. it... really doesn't make too much sense but, also sort of does on some level. can't get out of my own head about it for now - much nowhere else to go for the time being

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 18:29 lfm

quietly beautiful sunset

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 13:32 lfm

chess verdict: with some guidance, my friend won

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 12:10 lfm

listening to my friend's bf teaching her chess

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 04:20 lfm

staying at a friend's - she's temp hosting two cats of a friend of hers while he's abroad for a few months, i've met the cats a couple of times prior too, and one of the cats been sleeping here at his usual spot (the couch, which i just happen to be sleeping on tonight too, leaving a corner free by hanging my feet off the couch to be able to straighten my legs) for the past 3 hours i think :-]

will try continue sleeping now

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 23:11 lfm

nonsensical softness, want to catch u face to face so i could crawl back out of my own head about this for once

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 23:10 lfm

(ok i wasnt able to hand the rental back over yet smh - monday. i'll go fetch the drying rack last min then cheers)

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 18:32 lfm

[redacted address] rental apartment you served me well!

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 17:16 lfm

site idea: song loop cut of the indeterminate period of time

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 01:46 lfm

silly happy moment: june 2022, warsaw, poland. was linking up with a small bunch of people from a server, was already with a few of em. when the few of us finally linked up with some of the rest of us, i muchly ran to hug my helsinki friend and accidentally had my shoulder collide w his face to whatever degree ahahah but was no sustained injury

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 01:01 lfm

Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 19:32 lfm

the part of gingerbread dough making where you combine the sugar syrup stuff and the butter is a peak example of trusting the process

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 15:22 lfm

moving within a place of respect

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 11:11 lfm

annoyed! at how certain past situations unfurled on an emotion level. always such a risk

* Wed, Oct 15 '25 ~ 18:20 lfm

now onto more seretide mixes just cos too much trance envy for me to have been able to fit it into one evening

onto trance envy 2

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 23:55 lfm

some stupidsoftie part of me just kind of wannt to- 😶‍🌫️ give you a stupidly most tender cheek kiss. holding the other cheek w/ my hand and all. really put in all the softness into this 😶‍🌫️

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 23:47 lfm

getting really lost in a specific thought

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 22:32 lfm

the effect djs and musicspersons have on you is very profound

-a friend's observation about me pfffff

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 22:09 lfm

ambient presence

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 21:03 lfm

seretide soundcloud mixes typa night

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 15:35 lfm

site idea: tranceparty page - little compiler of the eventposters (at least those from ever since the seasons treatment started - if not more, as per the list someone(s) cooked up upon yr1 index) and text list of all the mixes on tp site radio (as per the ig post when it was announced)

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 12:36 lfm

taste in the tastemakers

* Mon, Oct 13 '25 ~ 22:31 lfm

first two songs are seemingly random spoken samples spread on a thin dry cracker of rhythm
okay not random at all actually
the first one tells a story, the second one has a distinct lack of story

* Mon, Oct 13 '25 ~ 17:34 lfm

i got a fountain pen though. might be nice

* Mon, Oct 13 '25 ~ 17:33 lfm

tryin to shut up for once :p

* Sun, Oct 12 '25 ~ 23:00 lfm

atp there might only be one question i want to ask moa pillar at this point - Have You Been To TranceParty?!?!?

and if he has not then i will wholeheartedly threaten him to go, especially whilst corsica's still open

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 17:03 lfm

sunlight slightly filtering thru the trees :-)

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 15:08 lfm

the malibu album is hitting

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 08:09 lfm

beautiful sunrise (now receded to just regular cloudy sunrise) + all fired up seretide mix = indomitable spirit even at 7:40am on the 4th workday in a row

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 07:32 lfm

wait this could be a promisingly beautiful sunrise im seeing the light change

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 07:24 lfm

a crow in the distance flying one way, a fly in my room flying the other way

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 07:23 lfm

overcast-like but feels lovely like that

* Sat, Oct 11 '25 ~ 07:08 lfm

another banger username idea: pendelp6rgu (translates to pendulum hell but the name insinuates the estonian word for commuting (pendelränne))

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 23:10 lfm

and its fine if it doesnt entirely make sense on some rational level

gotta try let things settle in the mind a bit. the warmth will nonetheless be there for at least a good while i feel like

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 16:38 lfm

and as i think i said in here its fine if the silly softness ends up temporaryyyyyy in the end hahah

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 16:36 lfm

shy shy reality check: seeing you in soft light / thinking you're lowkey cute / feeling stupidly inexplicably warm whenever sighting you, and annoyingly wishing to meet irl again but not knowing when thatll be or what you even really think about all this (or even what i would think about this once face to face again lmao) (and not wanting to bother direct too much in this current dynamic of not much at all 1v1 dm-ing :p) so in this uncertain open-endedness my brain for now spins the fuck around, largely in either past memories or vague hypotheticals. having banger dj mixes on staves the feeling off to a degree, maybe Doing Things does too. eeehhhh

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 11:12 lfm

stupid little conduit really

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 08:33 lfm

the mystery-outcome-til-irl-meet be sending my ass to the yearning portal

* Fri, Oct 10 '25 ~ 07:44 lfm

220 BRB license plate

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 23:15 lfm

"real yearner season approaching" you................

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 23:14 lfm

also always fun whenever theres any sort of dj set recording where (one of the) camera(s) is fixed to the deck/table especially when the camera shakes cos of the bass

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 23:13 lfm

yeah the mild oli resemblance is bonus dont @ me

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 23:10 lfm

i dont know wtf it is but. my brain just gets locked the fuck in. got locked the fuck in on seretides whole set on both fucking nights of weekender too. and/or is it my brain wanting to drill in deeppp on some realm as usual. okay also but this mf is lowkey cracked

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 23:07 lfm

when the seretide boiler room set hits

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 22:47 lfm

went like aaaahhhh ♻ hahahaha at someone in dm today and the msg accidentally has very good symmetry

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 19:14 lfm

-- and really i feel like its on me to try make sense of my own feelings --

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 10:25 lfm

same old same old

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 07:21 lfm

i guess the context of being alone for a lot of my day-to-day feeds into the thinky thoughts a lot? though it's not a bad sort of being-alone, the living on my own part of it anyway. feel happy that i dared to pull the strings toward that this year. but like damn, more space to Ambiently Yearn Too at points.

* Thu, Oct 09 '25 ~ 01:45 lfm

-- i can barely even play it cool sometimes --

* Wed, Oct 08 '25 ~ 16:20 lfm

it all feels very inane with parts of the world proverbially and/or literally on fire. i was not built for being aware of all of that i don't know what i can even do about it. besides my annoyingly tiny part

* Wed, Oct 08 '25 ~ 16:18 lfm

either i sit around and think stupid softie thoughts, or i do things while letting the stupid softie thoughts ambiently bump around in my head. no damn escape anyway so may well DO THINGS ANYWAY

* Wed, Oct 08 '25 ~ 14:07 lfm

it's all stupid

* Wed, Oct 08 '25 ~ 07:58 lfm

annoyed at myself (workplace context)

* Wed, Oct 08 '25 ~ 06:48 lfm

from a james k interview for truants blog:

I’m not into linear ideas or final statements, un-fixity is more my school of thought, the reason why interviews are extremely unnerving to me, and probably why I also talk so much (I’m always rethinking the last thing I said) (...)

(thinks about how im a chronic editor of messages) She Just Like Me Fr (halfjoke)

* Tue, Oct 07 '25 ~ 23:34 lfm

when the cartoon smile warmth hits

* Tue, Oct 07 '25 ~ 16:03 lfm

two dogs on opposite sides of the separating fence of the dog park running up and down the fence :,)

* Tue, Oct 07 '25 ~ 08:58 lfm

no wind upon this tree behind my window whatsoever - it's completely still, aside from bird rustling

* Tue, Oct 07 '25 ~ 08:37 lfm

i can't really make full verbal sense of what was going on in the dream, but there was some sort of performance element to whatever you were doing, in parallel with but unrelatedly to something else going on nearby, and i was largely just observing all that.

* Tue, Oct 07 '25 ~ 07:51 lfm

u were distinctly in my dreams again - nothing shysoft, i was simply a bit shy at points, keeping a little bit of distance, observing whatever shenanigans u were up to in the dream. it felt kinda nice.

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 20:17 lfm

the universe seen me saying too many times that im proficient at waiting and wanted to test me on it some more!

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 19:12 lfm

seems like uptodown is the best option for hunting down apps' older apk-s that'd be compatible with my stubbornly-kept older daily driver phone

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 18:11 lfm

miniorchid status: last bloom dropped out (maybe exaggerated the process by accidentally leaving lil guy soaked all night the other night lol)

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 17:06 lfm

tonights agenda though is: dinner, write lil replyletter and compile usb tunes to friend (so i could post all that tmrw) :-] and then see, maybe go in on an idea or two for site.

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 14:49 lfm

read thru my site's past notebook entries of this year. bit of a rollercoaster!

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 13:39 lfm

reminder: insoles!

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 12:42 lfm

but still losing my mf mind (softly) !!!!

* Mon, Oct 06 '25 ~ 11:22 lfm

largely working with hypotheticals for now

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 22:24 lfm

web of connections!!!!!

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 16:03 lfm

leaves pattering in the gentle rain. feels good

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 15:25 lfm

love autumn
the serenest of seasons

-a friend. just love the cadence of these msgs + reminded me of the existence of the word serene

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 14:29 lfm

me in 2021 about the tallinn airport pre-security toilets being rather spacious, and re toilets being mildly known for being spaces for Some Solo Philosophizing:

wide space for wide thoughts

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 14:10 lfm

😶‍🌫️ (...)

a friend of mine tellin me the only problem hes got w the whole sitch from what ive been sayin is how a normal person would be straightforward with this type of stuff (referring to my crushfriend)

BUT honestly im keeping things open-ended on purpose too lowkey, i don't wanna get my expectations too high and don't even know what i'd even be like face to face w/ crushfriend atp, cos as i did say to him direct too, i dunno if i realistically can (or even fr want to) do anything about this or just wanna have him know i think hes kinda cute! but just wanted to get all that off my chest! and having my friend appreciate that bit of it all still warms my heart a bunch, within the more-irl-yap-friendly-than-url-yap dynamics we got going on currently

and as a different friend of mine said, a little mystery love is nice in the end, often, soooo... yeah. cute and warm little bonfire, for the time being. will definitely take this over the 2021 sitch not gonna lie

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 03:50 lfm

so silly creature and animal sneek

-a friend

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 02:55 lfm

fun olihelsinki vid moment: a friend going like "if i keep bumping into you im sorry" and it exactly fitting into one single drumless bar of the song playing (look by doss)

and then very soon after going like "shit, he did play queencard, we talked a-" (oli sharply scratches at the cdj) "-bout it earlier" (oli stops the scratchrolling cdj, clumsy kicks in)

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 01:20 lfm

i really be having languages on a stronghold wrt wording:

airing that shit out, putting the silly little thoughts to dry on various friends' mental clotheslines

* Sun, Oct 05 '25 ~ 00:33 lfm

lovely moment: my friend who dropped by today earnestly offering to wash my dishes


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