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autumn '25 status: warmth within all the same
last private backup: nov 07 2025

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* Wed, Nov 12 '25 ~ 19:03 lfm

"don't know any better way to refer" Cool And Cute Friend...

* Wed, Nov 12 '25 ~ 14:25 lfm

got someone in a server im in to check out lick the lens pt1 yesterday, had good chats with em about this/music, i think this got me out of my head a bit wrt being bogged down about the album's contract-hell circumstances. joy!!!!!!! (genuine)

* Wed, Nov 12 '25 ~ 13:58 lfm

last night dreaming was also a bit wild. and again i dont fully know who was in my dreams again but i was in a high school english(?) class at one point, presumably the hs i went to, presumably largely my classmates but the teacher was different, mightntve even been eng class but the class was somewhy In English (i live in estonia. i went to an estonian hs)

* Wed, Nov 12 '25 ~ 07:04 lfm

to slowly move myself along past the softies...

* Wed, Nov 12 '25 ~ 00:24 lfm

slowly attempting to move myself along

* Tue, Nov 11 '25 ~ 22:51 lfm

reality's tight if the music is right.

still got to ask the friend if the shirt he has w that text is merch of any particular sort. one day. either way, it's bars

* Tue, Nov 11 '25 ~ 22:47 lfm

there's a great, big, beautiful tomorrow
shining at the end of every day

-from the description of an art tumblr (nnebuchadnezzar)

* Tue, Nov 11 '25 ~ 22:10 lfm

also dont even know who was in my dreams last night, for the better, it was a bit of a crazy dream.

* Tue, Nov 11 '25 ~ 20:46 lfm

yarnin with someone or other about music u both enjoy >>>>

* Sun, Nov 09 '25 ~ 11:53 lfm

(trying to remember each of the times ive taken a cab or uber)

2016 w/ now-ex, during uni once w/ roomie, 2019 w/ nizhnov friend, 2022 june shenanigans, 2024 march w shysoft-dream friend [pre-dream], a couple of times this year on my own

* Sun, Nov 09 '25 ~ 10:17 lfm

you were in my dreams again (but it was chill)

* Sun, Nov 09 '25 ~ 01:25 lfm

feelin hot (proverbial)

* Sat, Nov 08 '25 ~ 12:19 lfm

revised Sneek Music Enjoyment Tour operations esp w/ the w*rp happening having dropped off a while back...

* Sat, Nov 08 '25 ~ 07:38 lfm

still seeing you in soft golden hour light for what it's worth but in a way less agonizingly-in-my-head-about-it way. will get my way thru processing all that

* Fri, Nov 07 '25 ~ 21:32 lfm

Or, I don’t know about you, I’m gonna have to leave the planet. ‘Cause the technology is just gonna get better and better and better and better. And it’s gonna get easier and easier, and more and more convenient, and more and more pleasurable to be alone with images on a screen, given to us by people who do not love us but want our money. Which is all right. In low doses, right? But if that’s the basic main staple of your diet, you’re gonna die. In a meaningful way, you’re going to die.

-excerpt from a david foster wallace interview from 1996, which i saw via here sourced via here

* Fri, Nov 07 '25 ~ 16:16 lfm

moderately lovely continuation of sunset

* Fri, Nov 07 '25 ~ 15:45 lfm

mildly lovely sunset

* Fri, Nov 07 '25 ~ 10:34 lfm

craving calm...retreating to bed

* Thu, Nov 06 '25 ~ 21:58 lfm

but! the hand-me-down sewing machine that i finally asked for Actually Still Workksss

* Thu, Nov 06 '25 ~ 21:08 lfm

💭

i guess its still a bit difficult for me to try process / make sense of certain parts of my past without ending up crashing out a bit. feeling sad for past me really.

* Thu, Nov 06 '25 ~ 18:32 lfm

💭

i'll be chill about this of course - but still want to acknowledge how considerately the closure-approach came across to me. especially the "so you're able to get out your head about this" while i was genuinely struggling and wanting to get out of my head about it, but i didn't want to be bothersome over dm-s

* Wed, Nov 05 '25 ~ 18:58 lfm

having said the stupid things in earnest, and them having been in earnest doesnt stop them from having been stupid

* Wed, Nov 05 '25 ~ 16:10 lfm

a customer dropped a coin, immediately caught it back from its first bounce from the lower bit in front of the counter. satisfying as fuck

* Wed, Nov 05 '25 ~ 08:51 lfm

no reason not to make life easier for myself down the road (by doing stuff that needs doing Now)

* Tue, Nov 04 '25 ~ 17:39 lfm

-- it's fine though --

* Tue, Nov 04 '25 ~ 12:24 lfm

mildly refreshing to see discussion of some mildly to moderately known people and think to myself i dont even know who they are and i dont think the knowledge would even be relevant to my life

* Tue, Nov 04 '25 ~ 01:20 lfm

when the cartoon smile warmth hits

* Tue, Nov 04 '25 ~ 01:00 lfm

some tumblr post

dude stop before i develop a strange and powerful fondness for you

not (purely) crushbased fondness, to be clear

* Mon, Nov 03 '25 ~ 11:43 lfm

bristolian curse lite mode (my throat / vocal cords still a bit off from all the yapping at the event)

* Sun, Nov 02 '25 ~ 15:53 lfm

hostel purgatory bullshit ended up letting up. found out in morning there was a whole 4 british ppl in the room (of 6 beds) that all know each other or otherwise had bonded during the stay or something. was fun to unabashedly eavesdrop.

im home by now.

* Sun, Nov 02 '25 ~ 00:39 lfm

some hostel purgatory bullshit (same bunk as some mf that sounds to be hella wasted to hiccup extent. and im bottom bunk which might be the compromising bunk in this case. hellworld. would offer water but im not sure if theyre awake or asleep)

* Sat, Nov 01 '25 ~ 23:23 lfm

everything such a miracle (thought whilst i look at one set of doors of this older looking tram)

* Sat, Nov 01 '25 ~ 20:34 lfm

stray thought-energy, no pocket notebook on me, phone on 26%. lonitseera save me

* Sat, Nov 01 '25 ~ 09:12 (CET) lfm

long as u take care i'll be happy

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 19:26 (GMT) lfm

"bristol shopping quarter" near read that as shopping quartet

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 19:15 (GMT) lfm

mario + luigi sighting, bristol halloween edition

callback to when i saw a couple ppl dressed as mario + luigi on a barely descript june saturday night in glasgow

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 18:35 (GMT) lfm

britneys hit me baby one more time was playing from the aux in one part of the hallways toward passport control

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 16:22 (CET) lfm

nidar laban candies can wait for a future time i may be slightly cooked unless i run

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 13:45 (CET) lfm

omw into copenhagen for some enrichment cos ive got enough time til my last flight leg (departs 5pm!). listening thru rogue intruder soul enhancer over a long while. feels right!!!!!!!!!

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 12:28 (EET) lfm

listening to the stray amounts of mew i have in my local files while waiting to board the riga-copenhagen leg of this traversal to bristol. feels right.

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 08:49 lfm

seems there's some wee dog barking somewhere nearby me in the aircraft bless them

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 07:43 lfm

thinking back on spotting some estonian speaker group passing by me in the other direction in riga airport once, one of them had short hair and short beard and both were also PINK!

i myself will wait til grey to hassle w bright colors cos really can't bother to mess with bleaching this dark swathe of hair

* Fri, Oct 31 '25 ~ 07:41 lfm

on the bus to airport - someone w/ bright pink afro waiting at one of the bus stops :-) good sight in this dreary weather

* Thu, Oct 30 '25 ~ 23:44 lfm

theres still the wish-energy to give a tenderest cheek kiss, but out of respect ive moved the target away and now it no longer points at anyone in specific, for the time being - stray energy, got to be a bit careful with it

need to try to digest this somehow creatively, by means of art/craft somehow

* Thu, Oct 30 '25 ~ 15:17 lfm

beautifully weaved into this silly web

* Thu, Oct 30 '25 ~ 14:36 lfm

slight remaining blush of yellow leaves on the birch treetops

* Thu, Oct 30 '25 ~ 11:07 lfm

i'm primarily here to experience things!

* Thu, Oct 30 '25 ~ 10:30 lfm

had a worry-dream. ehhh

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 22:20 lfm

rather get doused in icy water than sewage!

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 22:19 lfm

or maybe i just get sad thinking about how some of my past selves could've used a bit more grace, if even from myself. i dunno. and a bit more upfront honesty from certain others, still makes me want to crash out a bit whenever thinking about the circumstantials. sure yes i could've done better too, but i didn't really know better at the time. as ive said before, always such a risk

but yeah, theres such a thing as too much self-introspection. i'm primarly here to experience things.

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 13:02 lfm

dreamt i was in some big apartment, and was plotting to paint its balcony yellow

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 02:53 lfm

i don't really know what i need

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 02:39 lfm

🤕 (...)

remember feeling more timid toward you on weekender 2nd night. remember looking for you for a solid hour or two, i think after i'd soloed the seretide set that night, just so i could say bye to you, but not having been able to in the end. remember having felt sad over that.

unrelatedly to the having been stuck in my head over shysoft hypotheticals, i occasionally spiral a bit over what if im too much type thoughts, haven't really figured out any effective countermeasure for all that. only that life feels too short not to show up earnestly. heart on sleeve.

doesnt help i've largely not been told upfront in past suchlike situations that ive been too much until its been bit too late to be able to correct course... makes me want to hide away, sometimes.

its middle of night anyway, cant trust myself this time of night

* Wed, Oct 29 '25 ~ 02:13 lfm

can be such a thing as too much self-introspection

* Tue, Oct 28 '25 ~ 14:02 lfm

and the friend knowing by now i've been referring to him as shysoft-dream friend - nothing to lose really. and maybe there's some fun to the vagueness of the phrase

* Tue, Oct 28 '25 ~ 13:57 lfm

4 different friends and 1 of my brothers rolled thru my dreams this time.

either local-penpal friend or fellow-yearner* friend (or some inexplicable hybrid thereof - we spoke in english, but i swear it could've been local-penpal friend), we were living in the same apartment building, same staircase, we hung out in the staircase a bit and then went to my apartment (i was at the rental), one of my brothers had somehow materialized on the couch. i introduced the two to each other.

cut to - me hanging out with bristol friend and shysoft-dream** friend, someplaces, must've been in tallinn or otherwise tallinn-like. an estonian friend who i've not spoken to in a while and who i've never met irl texted me about whether she can come visit me, i texted back i wasn't home at that moment.

*we started speaking 1v1 more via bonding over both of us being in the yearnful throes hahah

**i think i'll continue to refer to this friend as shysoft-dream friend for continuity's sake really - don't know any better way to refer

* Mon, Oct 27 '25 ~ 00:15 lfm

its been a year since the shysoft dream. just observing this fact

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:29 lfm

rustling in the wind

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:15 lfm

tiny puddle on a trash can rippling in the wind

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:14 lfm

sat on a wet bench to listen to the starlings in the reeds

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 17:11 lfm

leaves stuck all over a wet car like confetti

* Sun, Oct 26 '25 ~ 16:53 lfm

saying stupid shit online 4ever

* Sat, Oct 25 '25 ~ 23:19 lfm

anywayyyyy workbreak timeeeee

* Sat, Oct 25 '25 ~ 23:18 lfm

but for sure no longer spinspiralling inside my own head about this - even while still admitting to myself and to whoever cares enough to look at my thoughts page that the friend is cool and cute

* Thu, Oct 23 '25 ~ 22:13 lfm

belated bittersweetness - but thats alright too in the process

* Thu, Oct 23 '25 ~ 11:13 lfm

oh shit new meredith monk album? sometimes nice to be tapped in on classical-primary radio at work. theyre gonna play (bits of) the album on this show

long as this doesnt scare the customers off too much HAHA

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 23:35 lfm

love as unstoppable force, respect as immovable object - least thats the way things feel within me maybe even at large

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 23:34 lfm

thinking about how i read some stuff from loveless aro ppl somw time back, and rlly seeing what theyre putting down in the text, even while not loveless or even aro myself, just someone with a bit of a fraught relation with the concept and how its defined in this stupid orientation-rigid chunk-of-world n that

'love' this 'love' that, what about respect and so on fr

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 22:56 lfm

You've got some good energy tho
Keep it safe
And it will serve ye well

-a friend :,]

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 16:37 lfm

two wolves living within me - theyre named Unstoppable Force and Immovable Object

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 15:15 lfm

let the adjacent net move slow

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 09:03 lfm

much nowhere else to go aside from my own head!!!!

* Wed, Oct 22 '25 ~ 09:02 lfm

nonsennnnsssssse

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 22:39 lfm

-- still really enamored with you, so don't mind me too much if i say more of silly shit to you --

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 19:00 lfm

wait fuck this means im officially turning 29 next week too HAHA

it's cool, just a bit unexpected. i guess i had one big wish for the being-28, which was Moving Out, and move out i did - so i'm happy.

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:58 lfm

who will clock whom first is gonna be the most fun question (i will probably clock him first, but who knows. there's a rough trade right next to the venue, i might go and look at stuff in there. i hope they got james k friend cd but its ok if nottt cos maybe there will be cds at the james k show tooooo)

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:55 lfm

im officially catching moa pillar again Next Week, over nearly 6 years. not clear if itll be live or dj (in his ig post shouting out some upcoming things, he only said he will be playing "me music" at the bristol thing hahah), but either way will be crazy cool and/or cute to sort of reunite after all this time

catching lorenzo senni live gonna be cool too, and at least one friend of mine whos going to that tooo

manifesting that shysoft-dream friend's able to come - but it's okay if not :p

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 18:52 lfm

a longer-time tumblr mutual going like "ty booboo" at me. +5 hp

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 03:12 lfm

im really going round and round about this sort of haha

* Mon, Oct 20 '25 ~ 03:11 lfm

seeing you in soft golden hour light. it... really doesn't make too much sense but, also sort of does on some level. can't get out of my own head about it for now - much nowhere else to go for the time being

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 18:29 lfm

quietly beautiful sunset

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 13:32 lfm

chess verdict: with some guidance, my friend won

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 12:10 lfm

listening to my friend's bf teaching her chess

* Sun, Oct 19 '25 ~ 04:20 lfm

staying at a friend's - she's temp hosting two cats of a friend of hers while he's abroad for a few months, i've met the cats a couple of times prior too, and one of the cats been sleeping here at his usual spot (the couch, which i just happen to be sleeping on tonight too, leaving a corner free by hanging my feet off the couch to be able to straighten my legs) for the past 3 hours i think :-]

will try continue sleeping now

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 23:11 lfm

nonsensical softness, want to catch u face to face so i could crawl back out of my own head about this for once

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 17:16 lfm

site idea: song loop cut of the indeterminate period of time

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 01:46 lfm

silly happy moment: june 2022, warsaw, poland. was linking up with a small bunch of people from a server, was already with a few of em. when the few of us finally linked up with some of the rest of us, i muchly ran to hug my helsinki friend and accidentally had my shoulder collide w his face to whatever degree ahahah but was no sustained injury

* Fri, Oct 17 '25 ~ 01:01 lfm

Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 19:32 lfm

the part of gingerbread dough making where you combine the sugar syrup stuff and the butter is a peak example of trusting the process

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 15:22 lfm

moving within a place of respect

* Thu, Oct 16 '25 ~ 11:11 lfm

annoyed! at how certain past situations unfurled on an emotion level. always such a risk

* Wed, Oct 15 '25 ~ 18:20 lfm

now onto more seretide mixes just cos too much trance envy for me to have been able to fit it into one evening

onto trance envy 2

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 23:47 lfm

getting really lost in a specific thought

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 22:32 lfm

the effect djs and musicspersons have on you is very profound

-a friend's observation about me pfffff

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 22:09 lfm

ambient presence

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 21:03 lfm

seretide soundcloud mixes typa night

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 15:35 lfm

site idea: tranceparty page - little compiler of the eventposters (at least those from ever since the seasons treatment started - if not more, as per the list someone(s) cooked up upon yr1 index) and text list of all the mixes on tp site radio (as per the ig post when it was announced)

* Tue, Oct 14 '25 ~ 12:36 lfm

taste in the tastemakers

* Mon, Oct 13 '25 ~ 22:31 lfm

first two songs are seemingly random spoken samples spread on a thin dry cracker of rhythm
okay not random at all actually
the first one tells a story, the second one has a distinct lack of story

* Mon, Oct 13 '25 ~ 17:34 lfm

i got a fountain pen though. might be nice


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